Thank you Candice and Lidia - as always right to the point, exactly what I needed:) I missed the day pumping session today, wasn't really engorged, just full, so pumped 12 oz in one session, but I know it will get back to my standard 7-8 oz pretty quickly.
So I will continue pumping for her bedtime feed, and will add with the frozen EBM, as she takes 9 oz for bedtime, cow's milk for the day bottle, and BF for the morning feed till I feel like it.
We are also thinking of moving DD to the separate room (as her cot was in our bedroom), maybe she will FINALLY move her 5 am feed to after waking up. In which case I'd have to wean anyway, as she doesn't nurse when she's not sleepy, so will go with the flow.
For now, we are struggling for the 3rd tooth for 2 weeks, walking her first steps and transitioning towards 1 nap, so never a dull moment as you can imagine
Lidia, hope the weaning will go smoothly, Tessa didn't have any problem switching for the bottle for the bedtime, though I dreaded it, but it went no probs at all.
Candice, good luck to you and your little one, hope she arrives smoothly and on time!