Hi
I'm afraid I'm not going to be of much specific help, cos I'm not a great expert, and I've forgotten what it was like to have a newborn as my first DS is now 20 months. So firstly big hugs to you for coping with two LOs. And so great that you've found EASY for number 2 - it can take a while and some perserverance but its sooo worth it. Welcome to BW boards.
The best thing to get some help would be if you could post your LOs routine as it is at the moment? Just roughly in terms of EAS etc in whatever order they come. (and I never found the Y so lets forget about that for now
) Then someone could come along and help, and I'll chip in if I can....
H