I agree with linsysunshine on everything she said
Getting your LO on a structured routine will be the most beneficial thing you could do at this point because then everything else can be resolved from there.
I also recommend using a swaddle. Our kiddo is a swaddle Houdini, so we've had to use the Kiddopotamus swaddlers. Others use the Miracle Blanket. They're harder to get out of than just a blanket. You might want to look into those.
When you get the book, one of the first things that Tracy talks about is EASY (Eat. Activity. Sleep. You. EASY is a structured routine that is repeated throughout the day. It's set in place by you, but it's not an exact schedule because it it ultimately led by your baby. It's a dance, as I've heard many moms refer to it as. We, the parents, have to teach our LOs how to do many things once they enter this world, like how to go to sleep, etc. There is a lot of ebb and flow with EASY, meaning that no two days are exactly the same; but the overall pattern is there, and babies thrive on predictability. On EASY they learn a very healthy pattern: I wake up, I eat, I play a little bit, and then I rest. We as adults to this, too...we've just consolidated our sleeping quite a bit and eat less frequently
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One of the best things about having your LO on EASY is that you become better at interpreting your baby's cries. If it's only been 20 minutes since your LO ate, chances are your 6 week old is tired. So, not only does it benefit you and help you understand what your LO is saying with his cries, but HE feels that his needs are understood and met. It builds a very healthy foundation for the rest of your relationship
Okay...so enough waxing philosophical! Did you have a chance to look at the sample EASY routines that Anna posted a link to? Looking there, you can see that most 6 week olds are on a 3 hour EASY routine. That means that the whole pattern repeats itself every 3 hours, except at night.
The typical 3h EASY looks something like this for a 6 week old, who can only stay awake about 1h15 at a time--that's one A time (most people view A as Awake instead of as Activity since it really is counted from eyes open to eyes shut. It includes eating, activities, and wind down routine):
E: 7.00 wake up and feed
A: 7.30 or 7.45 (depending on how long feed takes)
S: 8.15
Y: your choice
E: 10.00
A: 10.30 or 10.45
S: 11.15 (1.5hr nap)
Y: your choice
E: 1.00
A: 1.30 or 1.45
S: 2.15 (1.5hr nap)
Y: your choice
E: 4.00 feed
S: 5.00 or 5.15 you'll give him a catnap (approx. 40mins) to get through the next feed and bath [Note: you could also let him sleep a bit longer, say, for 1 hour]
E: 6 (cluster feed at 6 and at bedtime until 8 weeks old, or if going through a growth spurt)
A: bath
E: a top-off
S: 7.00 bedtime
Y: the evening is yours
E: 10 or 11pm dreamfeed
If you let him have a 1 hour catnap, then from there, your night would look like this:
S: 5.00 or 5.15 catnap (approx. 40mins)
E: 6 or 6.15
A: bath
E: a top-off
S: 7.15 or 7.30 bedtime
Y: the evening is yours
E: 10 or 11pm dreamfeed
So, that's an average day, but DO NOT feel obligated to have your LO do exactly this! Go by his cues first and foremost. This is an approximation of the day.
I know you said that your LO yawns and then you put him to bed. Without knowing what your routine looks like, I'd say that you're either putting him to bed too soon or too late.
I'm a bit hesitant to start unloading all these ideas and details on you, only because without having read the book, I'm afraid I might overwhelm you. As I mentioned in a previous post, start writing everything down, look through some of the EASY FAQ threads (
http://babywhispererforums.com/index.php?board=82.0). Keep doing the shh/pat--it might take him a while to get used to it! Work on getting his feeding more regularly as well as his naps. Have a consistent wind down in place, too.
Do you know how long it will take for you book to come in? If it hasn't come in in a couple of days, let me know. I'd be happy to work with you on starting EASY, as will many other mommies
Right now, it really is time for you to spend a couple of days writing things down and just observing. Then, we can get to work!
How has the rest of the day gone so far?