I'm starting to think that I've got a crier in my hands. DS would cry/fuss and sometimes screams regardless of A times. I've lengthen A time, shorten it and still he cries before every bedtime. Today, I put him in his chair 50min into his A time. When his eyes starts getting droopy, I immediately picked him up and swaddle him. He then starts to cry... it's like as if he knew that swaddling meant bedtime.
Night times were even worse... after his bath and last feed, I lay him on my bed till he was sleepy then proceeded to swaddle him. He then screamed (really loudly) when I picked him up and started to rock-shush-pat him. He just wouldn't stop screaming even when I put him down. He screamed for a good 10min and closed his eyes suddenly to sleep. It's so odd... everything is so sudden. One second he was fine, the next he was screaming and suddenly he just stopped screaming and went to sleep. I don't think his screaming is mantra cry, is it? Does he just have to scream to let off some steam before bedtime?
Oh and regarding reflux, I've asked my ped 3 times, every time I visited her. She kept assuring me that he's fine. He does spit up throughout the day but he doesn't cry when he spits (happy spitter?).
Also, the only way I can AP is to rock-shush-pat him in my arms till he's asleep. He will not sleep in his stroller. He is ok sitting in his stroller when he's not sleepy. But the moment he gets sleepy, he would cry and won't sleep even when I stroll him around.
Other then bedtime, he is such a happy baby. Always smiling, cooing and interacting with people.
BTW, what is "IYKWIM"?
Thanks