Thank you very much...
Your plan sounds perfect... I will try it if my plan does not work... Lets share our yesterday's experience and my plan...
Yesterday i was so nervous that i called my husband and he came home earlier. then during 2 nap time he said me- go out from the bedroom. After some time I didn't listen any sound and went to bedroom and sow that they sleep very peacefully... He just let her to play with different things and finally she slept without anything (she slept from 3:10 pm-4:30 pm). The bedtime routine I started later at 7:00, because of later nap. We did the same, she played with different things (creams, boxes, clock etc) finally she slept (at 8:20 pm). Could you imagine? she woke at night only 2 times. first she woke at around 11:00 started to cry, dad reassure her that everything is OK, a little walked, put down, nothing helped, just she wanted that I picked her (Husband didn't allow me to pick up, saying that she will not sleep)... After crying about 5 minutes she slept again, second time she woke around 4 am drink water and slept very quickly. This is fine yes? This morning again I put her at 9:15 am, with hope that she will sleep after 1 hour and it worked, she slept at 10:15am, it means she slept after 4 hours of being awake.
I am thinking of transition 2-1 nap, maybe it is time to do it, because for the second nap she is ready around 3:30 pm which pushes bedtime later, as a result she sleeps at night around 10 hours +about 1 hour during the nap... It is not enough.
OK, my plan is
1. Let her to sleep with my presence, even it will take 1-1.5 hours, for regain her trust.
2. To do transition 2-1 naps.
3.Again early bedtime 6:30-7:00 pm
4. then teach her to sleep independently,without my presence using walk in/walk out method or something else.
Lets see if my plan will work or not. If not I will try yours. Do you agree with me?
Thanks again, hope I will post about our sleep progress...