Ladies I need some help and advice.
My lo will be 1 in less than a week. She is still waking to feed once at night which I want to eliminate. However she is still waking multiple times a night outside of that. She uses a pacifier and many times it just needs to be replugged. She refuses to do this, we have tried every bit of advice given from this forum. She will put it in if I give it to her, but will not look for it. She just cries and flails about till someone gives it to her.
She is currently teething (same 2 teeth for a month now, which have yet to actually come out), but this has been going on since birth. Her napping in general is crap too, only 1 hr and a 25 min CN, the longer one also often has multiple wakings. Here's a general schedule (somewhat idealized). She also has been getting up too early and then needing to nap earlier, but not longer.
4:00 am - nurse
7 - nurse and up for the day
9:30/10 - breakfast
11:30/12 - nap (has been wanting to nap and falling asleep around 11 for a while)
12:30-1:30 - lunch
3/3:30 - nap (25 min)
3:30-4 - nurse
5:30/6 - dinner
7 - bath and nurse
Snacks as wanted
I'm so exhausted from a year of this I'm considering CIO and I do not want to do that.