I agree Aishi, just plough on with set BT and she'll get there in the end... Hope today isn't too awful after that night.
Rachsk8 - sorry bit late now, what did you do? I'd have capped but prob depends on your LO.
Tinkerbell99 - amazing that your DD2 is on 1-0 already! My DS had only just done 2-1 at that age and still naps most days! Glad the CN is working for you, just as long as you're sure it really is 1-0 and not 18mo regression? But if all else is ok then great!
I really don't know where DS is with this now, kind of miss the days when we had the monitor in his room, but it seemed silly to buy a new one for DD when he was almost 4, so now he has no problem coming out of his room when he needs us, before he would call out. Still offer a nap at the same time each day, I often go past his room to get DD down, only to find the door wide open, various toys moved into the hall and him fast asleep! So he evidently plays for a while but that's fine by me. Whether I wake him or not depends more on what DD is doing and whether I have to do both BTs solo, than on whether I think he needs it or not. He has a gro clock but will often just leave his room as soon as I've started on DD's nap, as he knows he'll be able to play with the ipad when I'm not there! Nights are similarly variable, sometimes he wakes to DD, sometimes to go to the loo (not yet consistently dry at night, and has wanted the security of pull ups again recently), then if he wakes early and sees that I'm already up, he'll just come in and join me, I don't put up much of a fight any more as I suspect he just doesn't really need that much sleep. But I'm reluctant to get rid of naps completely as that would bring BT early which is more difficult with DD especially if DH is home late... So poor DS's 1-0 seems to be dictated more by DD than by himself. But he's not overly tired so I'm not overly worried, guess my sleep focus has shifted now!