DH and I are literally ready to tear our hair out! DS (14.5 months) has never been a big eater, that's just how he is. However the last week, dinner has gone steadily downhill. We initially chalked it up to teething, so one night when he didn't eat his dinner, I gave him one of those food packs. The last few nights he has refused all dinner, spits out whatever he does initially try and sweeps his food off his tray. We're in the process of weaning him off his bedtime bottle and are down to 3 oz but I hesitate to get rid of it entirely at this point because if I do, the last thing he'll have to eat during the day is his 3 o'clock snack!
He eats what we eat, so I don't put very much salt in anything. His snacks (x2) are healthy (fruit and crackers, half an avocado and some graham crackers etc.), and he eats three meals a day. Should I get rid of the 3 o'clock snack for the time being? We're very much of the "this is what is for dinner, eat it or go hungry" mind set. We don't offer him anything at dinner other than his meal, no fruit/crackers etc. We have been giving him milk with dinner but he seemed to be filling up on it instead of eating. I was planning on giving it to him after he ate some dinner tonight but that never happened, so no milk. If he starts to fuss/throw food around, we ask him if he's finished eating and 90% of the time he does our 'Finished' action (dusting hands off). We wash off hands and face and he's dismissed from the table. Tonight I gave him two chances to eat, as Tracy suggests and both were a total bust.
This is a typical eating day for T:
7am -WU, drink 6-7oz bottle (we'll wean this one after the bed time one)
7:30am- Breakfast: today was toast with PBJ, 2 tblsps full fat plain greek yogurt with a spurt of honey, raspberries
9:30 am - Snack: dry Cheerios, 6-7 pieces of fruit
11:45 - Lunch: Chicken salad sandwich cut into 8ths, he at 2 triangles which is pretty normal. 2 chopped prunes
3:00 - Snack: 4 graham crackers dipped in avocado (lightbulb moment! That's a lot of graham crackers for T!)
5:30 - 'Dinner': Pasta Primevera (pesto, pasta, veg and chopped up chicken for protein) He used to LOVE this meal
6:45 - 3 oz bottle
I should add he sometimes has poop issues. Usually the prunes solve it but not today. Tomorrow he'll get a teeny bit of olive oil in his morning bottle to move things along. He hasn't pooped in 48 hours. I love my little babe beyond measure. He is a wonderful sleeper, is an Angel/Textbook baby and we've been very fortunate but the eating drives us crazy!!
Please either tell me a) I feel your pain and it sucks!, or b) give me something to try