I started APOP back at the 18 month sleep regression and all though it has waxed and waned, I've never been able to really stop the holding to sleep now. Naps seem a bit better but NT can take awhile. sometimes 30 minutes. Our EASY looks like this:
7 up
7:30 eat
10ish snack
12ish eat
1:30 nap
3:00 up (I wake up to preserve BT at 8 - or at least try to preserve it).
3:00 snack
5:15ish eat
6:30 bath
7:15 family worship time
8:00 BT (can take up to 30+ minutes for a wind down)
Maybe my EASY needs tweaked - I fear I am holding onto a long a nap as possible for ME instead of giving him what he needs - which may be less sleep.
We've had EW on and off and my DS is now asking for everything at bedtime - food, water, songs, story etc etc. To avoid the crying, I just hold him, give him water, some grapes if I think he's really needing some food and just sing to him until he falls asleep.
How do I go about bringing back his Independent sleep? Any help or suggestions would be greatly appreciated.
Thanks!