Hello!good questions
I found that if I didnt wake him from his morning nap The afternoon nap was starting to happen later and later as he seems to be able to do a good A time between naps now, which didn't fit well with me having to collect his brother from nursery and consequently LOs bedtime was getting later. I think Kellyjs suggested he was heading towards one nap and she sent me a link about the transition. From reading this I then decided to go short am nap long pm nap, as LO was also struggling to go down for his Pm nap after a long am nap.
It seems to suit him and it's been a few weeks since I let him sleep in the morning til he wakes or beyond 11am. It generally only happens after a very rough night or early wake up. I don't think I am brave enough to try it and then hope for a short pm nap.
But I was asking about a times as I'm wondering whether he would benefit from a longer a time before bedtime so it's interesting to hear that worked for your son. I was wondering if that might help him settle for bed better and with the nights.
Night 3 was ok. He woke alot after 3am though and I think his teeth were making him uncomfortable. I stuck to my plan and only fed twice, moving feeds later each night, and did the shhh pat on him all other times. I'm worried that I might be shh'ing him for too long but it's hard to see in the dark when he is going to sleep so I need to be careful on that.
How long should it take for this training to work? I think I read in Tracey's book it could be two weeks but when I was looking again today couldn't see that...