Hmm interesting. The first nap awake time is so important but yet so difficult when you have such a poor sleeper at night. I feel like that has to affect how long they can go before their nap, as well as how they nap??
What do you make of yesterday's EASY?
WU 7:57a
E: 8:00
A: 7:57-9:47 (1.50) was fussy off and on during A time- didn't want me to leave him alone long
S: 9:47-11:52- was very calm during routine and dropped odd immediately. Which would normally be OT but he slept 2hrs and I watched him he transitioned sleep cycles very peacefully. And woke happy??
E: 12:00
A: 11:52-1:40- had been calm during A time but i needed to rest so was anxious to get him down
he was fussy during routine (I'm now thinking this is another UT sign- like he's mad bc he's not ready?? He was fussy when I tried to nurse for a top off too which he does when he's not hungry-- clearly he doesn't like me forcing things on him! :p )
S: 1:42-2:05-- 23 min nap!! Woke happy and WOULD NOT resettle. He laid there for a bit whining but very alert then I tried to resettle and move to swing and he got VERY mad. So after 30 or so I got him up and he was fine and we played.
E: 3:00
A: 2:05-4:11- went up at 1hr50 since the short nap figured he'd be tired and he got really fussy when we got up there so I left nursery walked around with him until he calmed
S: 4:14-5:26, again he dropped off pretty quick and slept a while, does this mean it was timed right or OT from last nap? I know sometime with OT they wake early and cry and other times they will catch up sleep
E: 5:30
A: 5:26- 7:35, was a little impatient during playtime so we. Decided to start bath in case he needed to go down soon and he got REALLY fussy during pjs. Wouldn't take his bottle etc so
I decided to try leaving the nursery again and he calmed and took a whole bottle downstairs. Then I held him and walked around again until he stopped squirming. Again he dropped off immediately but didn't wake early in crying like he use to do OT.
Seems like we've been putting him down around 2hrs-2hrs 10 for bed and anything earlier he fussed and takes 30min+ To settle. He even did the 3hr A time last weekend and did fine.
It's so confusing! He slept "better" the night before this and even had a 2hr stretch before waking at 8 yet the 1hr50 A time resulted in a 2hr nap. I would of thought he needed more A time with better night sleep.
I've never done a dream feed as he use to go pretty long when he was younger. And now anytime one fed before 1a (and sometimes even then) he doesn't eat well or will even get mad/fussy. I know, rare, a BF baby who doesn't want to eat?!
Maybe I will try feeding him when he wakes around 10:30 (or whenever he wakes that first stretch (usually 3 hrs) iIve never tried feeding that first waking as it was always 3-4 from feeding and so I figured he couldn't be hungry if he wouldn't take a feed at 1a?
The hyperness thing is strange too as it started a few weeks ago. I assumed OT as well but it happens during every A time now and so I think it might be just his age or trying to burn off energy. I think when he goes from being hyper to fussy 1 second later and back and forth (very spaz like) that is OT.
Why do I have such a confusing child?! Lol. He's yawned 4 times already and it's only been an hour of A time :/