Hey.
I have to ask for advice and your help once again. It seems as if we just go from one thing to another. When will it stop?!
So, my son, now just a few days short of 6 months started having terrible nights again. He was waking 2 times a night and sleeping until 6.30. Now the mornings are getting earlier and he is waking every hour, 2 hours, sometimes he manages a longer stretch but it is not common. This has been going on now for 2 weeks. At first I thought that it's because he fell asleep during breastfeeding at night. So I worked hard not to let him fall asleep on the breast but it didn't help and he was just awake for 30 minutes to an hour and then woke again just the same it he would if he fell asleep on the breast. Then I thought that he is teething but I am not sure (the gums aren't red or swollen but he is constantly rubbing them).
In the past days I just gave in and started getting him up at 6am but yesterday and today he woke up at 5.30 so I can see the trend emerging.
His scedual:
Wake and breastfeed: 6am
S: 8:30am (sleeps for 1h20minutes – 1h 30min)
E: 10 am (breastfeed)
E:11.45 (solids)
S: around 12.30 (again cca 1h30min)
breast feeds when he wakes up around 2pm
CN: 4.30 pm -5.00 pm (around 30 minutes, usually in the stroller)
breastfeeds when he wakes up
7.00pm – bath
7.20pm top up feed
7.45pm sleep
I will not write the NW since they are all over the place. I usually breastfeed him, even if only for a couple of minutes, and then put him to bed. He doesn’t fall asleep by himself but needs a bit of sush and pat.
We tried putting him to bed earlier for the night but he woke up even earlier in the morning and it was really hard for us as a family to make it work.
I am struggling with the timing of the first nap after an EW. I have the nap 2.5h after EW for a few days he only starts to wakeup earlier. But if I keep the time of the nap where it should be he is overtired and only sleeps for 30 minutes.
I think that I need to work on the night wakings first but I have no idea what to do. With my first son, I stopped breastfeeding him at night at this age but I am not sure if this is the way to go with this one too. They are both big babies, DS2 is almost 9 kg at the moment.
I will appreciate and advice you have for me!
Thanks!