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Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« on: October 09, 2006, 18:28:46 PM »
Okay...from browing the other posts this is probably LONG overdue.  But, I think it's time that we remove the plug so to speak.  I think the paci may be causing major sleep problems for the entire family and I'm wondering if anyone has any suggestions for weaning a 1YO spirited toddler.  PU/PD is too stimulating for her.  In fact, she turns up the drama whenever she has an audience so I'm wondering if WI/WO is even an option.  She is too young for the paci fairy or we would do that. 

Also, can she still have it in the car but not her crib?  What about daycare (sleep only) but not at home?  I ask cuz I need my sanity when driving and DD has a very loud and annoying cry (very distracting) and there will be other paci's at daycare.  DD will "steal" the other babies' pacis - she doesn't suck them, just likes to take them away.  I think she likes the noise that it makes when they start crying.   :-[

So...I welcome any advice for making this easier for DD and any alcoholic drink recipes for making it easier on me.  I think I'm going to start this weekend when DH is out of town.  It'll be just me cuz he's putty in her hand and will cave in.  Oh...note to self:  pull out the earplugs. 

I'm so scared. 

Thanks ladies.  I owe ya' one!
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #1 on: October 10, 2006, 03:43:14 AM »
Hey, just wanted to say good luck.  What method are you using?  My ds is almost 1 and he's got the paci addiction also.  He always has to have 2 or 3 with him at all times.  He will also steal other kids' paci's, but he WILL suck them.  I tried to cut the tips off but that just wee*ed him off.

Anyway good luck!!

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #2 on: October 10, 2006, 03:44:06 AM »
Oh, and a good drink recipe.....  rasberry vodka (I prefer absolut rasberry) and cranberry juice with a wedge of lime....YUMMMY!! ;D

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #3 on: October 10, 2006, 03:50:53 AM »
I think I'm just going to go cold turkey.  Maybe I'll let her fall asleep with it and then take them all from her crib when I go to bed.  At least when she wakes at night she should be pretty sleepy and might go back to sleep easier...yeah, right!
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #4 on: October 11, 2006, 14:19:17 PM »
Casey, why do you want to wean it, does Katie wake up a lot at nigth and she canīt replug herself?
 

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #5 on: October 11, 2006, 17:32:29 PM »
Esther - She's waking a lot at night and I'm not sure why cuz she does this a lot!  We might have a week or so where things settle down and DH and I think that "we" are making progress but we always come back to so many night wakings.  Last night between 3:45 and 5am when I couldn't sleep, I counted 12 wakeups.  She fusses a bit - never a full blown cry and then falls back off to sleep after usually less than a minute.  But, it's just loud enough and long enough to wake DH and I up.  I had convinced myself that the paci was the culprit - you know, she wakes up with it out and starts to fuss as she looks for it.  Once she finds it and replugs then she'll settle and go back to sleep.  The timing fits the duration of the wakeups, I think.  Although now it looks like she has a sinus infection.  But like I said, this is closer to the norm and the nights where we only have 3-5 wakeups are the anomoly.  A nice anomoly, I'll grant you! 

So, I wanted to wean the paci to see if we had some improvements with the wakeups cuz if she doesn't need the paci to sleep, she won't wake up "missing" something and fuss until she can find it.  DH doesn't think the paci is the problem and when we saw her pediatrician yesterday he said that she'll sleep through when her system is ready.  It just takes time.  DH does agree that she needs to give it up and she's actually starting to seek out her paci's to suck on during the day.  We don't give them too her - except in rare meltdown situations - but she'll crawl to her crib, reach in and pull them out to suck on them.  She's also taken to putting anything that is long enough to suck on in her mouth (like a bulb syringe or puzzle pieces with knobby handles) and she'll suck away.  We may have missed our window...I'm not sure. 
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #6 on: October 11, 2006, 17:42:10 PM »
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #7 on: October 11, 2006, 20:11:59 PM »
{{big hugs}] too, casey. will be thinking of you this weekend!



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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #8 on: October 12, 2006, 04:20:30 AM »
ohhh bummer Casey... i guess she is waking alot uh? :-\  does she have a lovey to help her on the paci weaning? i was going to suggest to wean a bit later, īcause my ped told me that if he wasnīt waking up due the paci, then it was ok to wean at 18-24MO, but i guess Katie is waking way too much.... mmmhhh... about the lovey, well i think you can give it to her for two or 3 weeks so she gets attached to it, and then you remove the paci, that way she will still have the lovey for comfort.... :-\

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #9 on: October 12, 2006, 04:58:43 AM »
Esther - Thanks for the recommendation, but she sleeps with 6+ pacis and at least 3 lovies...sometimes more!  DH doesn't want to wean, but I guess the decision is mine if he goes out of town.
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #10 on: October 12, 2006, 05:01:53 AM »
We went cold turkey with my son. We took it away at bedtime and made sure he saw we threw it in the garbage and said NO MORE. The night was an absolute nightmare and nobody got any sleep. But when he woke up in the morning it was like it didnt ever exist in his little world...

Mind you he was an angel baby so the outcome may be very different. (he was 18 months at the time)

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #11 on: November 09, 2006, 22:10:46 PM »
Cassey,

How did the Pacci weaning go?  I am curious, as I have been thinking about weaning our DS from his too.

Would love to hear how it went.

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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #12 on: November 09, 2006, 23:39:10 PM »
It was too easy. We started at bedtime and had 38 minutes of WI/WO and then the next day we had about 25 minutes at naptime and no problems since.  It hasn't solved our night wakings though!  And DH and I have actually thought of bringing it back cuz it was nice to have something portable that DD could use for comfort.  We don't have really anything now and it can get difficult and noisy (and stressful) sometimes.  Car rides are a bit of a struggle now and we have actually started using ear plugs (not the best, I know but it does cut the crying down to a manageable volume).
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Re: Paci Weaning for a 1YO
« Reply #13 on: November 10, 2006, 20:34:40 PM »
Thanks for your reply Cassey,

I am sorry to hear that it has not improved the night wakings.

We are thinking of trying to get rid of ours by 18 months, so will definitely give it a try.  He does not have it for nap times in nursery at all, but still wants it at home in the afternoons, so think we will tackle those first and then try the night time.

Will let you know how we go when we try.

Thanks for your reply.

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